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Wk 17 - Establish Boundaries and Act Assertively

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Establish Boundaries and Act Assertively

As a leader, it's essential to establish boundaries to maintain your emotional and mental well-being.

Here are some tips for determining your boundaries and acting assertively:

  1. Start by identifying what your boundaries are. These could include respecting your time, not tolerating disrespectful behavior, or maintaining a work-life balance.
  2. Once you have identified your boundaries, communicate them clearly to others. Let them know what you will and will not tolerate, and be assertive when enforcing your boundaries.
  3. Establish consequences for when your boundaries are crossed. For example, if someone repeatedly interrupts you during your work time, let them know that you will no longer be available to them during that time.
  4. Practice assertive communication to ensure your boundaries are respected. Be clear and direct while also being respectful of others.
  5. Don't be afraid to say no. Sometimes, saying no is the best way to establish and maintain your boundaries. If someone asks you to do something that goes against your values or principles, it's okay to say no.
  6. Be consistent in your behavior to ensure that your boundaries are respected. Enforce your boundaries consistently and avoid making exceptions.

Determining boundaries and acting assertively takes practice and makes you a more effective leader.

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